I wouldn’t say that social work, in and of itself, has ever
REALLY appealed to me. It isn’t about
not wanting to help others; that has actually always been a part of my
personality. No, my initial disinterest
probably stemmed from the repetition of “paper work” and overload of others’
issues that I heard from several people who had been or were in the social work
field. The bias I created towards it was
hard for me to get over.
Back to the beginning, I grew up the middle child of seven;
three brothers and three sisters, nine years older and nine years younger—directly
in the middle. There is something to be said
about growing up in close proximity home—sharing space, things, and only having
time alone when you are using the restroom.
So, that could be a little dramatic, but the reality of the situation is
that this sort of upbringing, at least for me, caused me to do a lot of soul
searching and I found that I cared for people.
I cared about their hurts, wants, and needs. This was not limited to my family, though it
may have been early on. My parents
placed a value on putting others first.
We went to each other’s games, concerts, and activities. We ate dinner together and learned what it
meant to invest in people outside of ourselves.
It’s striking, when set in that backdrop, that social work was the way
that I ended p choosing. For some, an
upbringing like that may have burnt them out… for me, I think of it as having a
lot of experience with it—it’s what I know, so I keep doing it.
Social workers are a special breed. This breed is a group of people who have a
special, vested interest in the lives of others. This interest often supersedes their own
interests. Good social workers
understand how to balance their lives between their work and meeting the needs
of those with whom they work. Some
social workers will struggle early on while they try to learn that balance
through trial and error.
Social work practice covers a broad range of professional
arenas. Social workers can work within
big business, corporate consulting, education system, judicial system, your
more obvious “social work” agencies, or in many other professional settings. The benefit of having an MSW or greater is
the potential to work in a wide range of organizations at a wide variety of capacities. This flexibility makes the degree much more
viable and one to be achieved. There are
definitely still struggles to find jobs for those who have recently graduated
or who have recently been let go from their previous job.
There are some personality qualities that seem to be a
recurring feature of social workers. Empathy,
optimism, and flexibility are these recurring qualities. In order to discuss them thoroughly, I will
talk about each individually before tying them all together. Empathy is a term commonly used in social
work classes and amongst social work practitioners. A common theme associated with this term is, “Meet
the client where they are at.” The theme
has to do with the client coming first.
The client’s needs, desires and overall goals should be the most
important thing to the one providing service.
Meeting a client where they are at demonstrates that they are more
important to you as a person than they are as a time slot to be filled in the
schedule or a financial means to an end.
Empathy takes a person’s story an allows the provider, who is otherwise
uninvolved in the situation, to join with the client in problem solving and
goal setting if that is what they desire.
Otherwise, maybe the client would rather just talk or not talk. “Meeting the client where they are at” is a
state of mind for the provider; it requires setting aside their own agenda and
working towards selective solution. The
other thing about empathy is that a client has the right to disclose as much or
little as they want. Unfortunately, they
also reserve the right to withhold information which could have helped the
provider find resources for the struggling client. The point of this is that a provider can only
be as helpful as the client allows them to be based on the amount and type of
information the client provides.
Optimism is the glass
half full mentality. Optimism allows
social workers to overlook much of the craziness of work, clients, providers in
order to start finding solutions instead of dwelling on the problems. I believe that optimism and “hope” are
interchangeable in a lot of ways. A
provider who is hopeful is going to be more likely to have a positive relationship
with their clients. The clients with
whom the provider works will feed off of the optimism a lot of times and will
see their situation with a renewed energy and level of positivity they would
likely not have enjoyed without the optimism and hope of their case
worker. Hope is a little bit deeper than
optimism, in my opinion and surpasses understanding in terms of sensing hope in
situations where it would be so much easier to doubt.
Flexibility is the final character quality that I see
exuding from many of the social workers with
whom I am in contact. Social work
schedules are often chaotic. Whether
they are fully booked with appointments or, through cancellations, meetings and
trainings, their schedule is strangely open.
Flexibility also means that the provider gets from place to place when
they need to be there. They will take
off their treatment team “hat” when they leave the workplace, and will put on
their resource officer when at the school where they also work, then put on
their homeowner and family man hat once with their families. There will always be a significant amount of
stress to which social workers will be subject.
Managing these stressors will likely be the difference between a good
practitioner and one who is not very good.
Social workers have tough jobs, but many of the good social
workers exude empathy, optimism, and flexibility. These qualities have shown, over time, to be
helpful to providers and clients in a therapeutic setting.
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